Do you know that –

The most important relationship in your life is the relationship you have with yourself?

The only person you can change is yourself, though most of us are preoccupied with changing others?

When you take responsibility for your own reactions, you can heal old wounds, learn and grow and stop repeating the same painful patterns?

Working with me, you will have the opportunity to –

  • Learn to listen to yourself and stop ignoring what is going on within you.
  • Discover and use the power, love and wisdom within you.
  • Learn and grow and find meaning and purpose.
  • Enjoy life, embrace it and live purposefully.
  • Become aware of your fears and learn how to manage them rather than be controlled by them.
  • Experience increase of love for yourself and others.
  • Realise what it means to be at the helm of your ship and living your best life.

Understanding from the perspective of the Soul


PurpleHydrangeaMBIt is so different to see our experiences from the perspective of the Soul as opposed to the perspective of ego.

The ego sees problems and bummers. The Soul understands everything as being a lesson, challenge and opportunity to grow and to understand truth.

The ego struggles against what happens and sees it as unfair, bad, wrong, terrible, traumatic, something you can never get over. The Soul knows that each challenge holds an opportunity to grow in understanding and in our realisation of love and truth.

The ego sees separation and loneliness. The Soul sees connection and oneness.

The ego expects negative things to happen – is waiting for the next “thing” that’s round the corner. The ego warns you to prepare yourself by worrying and not getting too happy with how well things are going.

The Soul operates in positive expectation, trusting in the benevolence of life, knowing that as you learn from your challenges and focus on the opportunity in each one, that your consciousness expands, your heart and mind expand, life takes on deeper meaning.

The ego lives with threat and on constant high alert, always focused on security, safety caused by the belief that security is an outside job. If things are ok outside me, people like me, approve of me, think well of me and such, then I am secure, safe.

The Soul knows it is love and that fear is illusion – that insecurity is caused by the belief that you are a physical body, an ego, on your own.

The Spiritual path is about learning what the Soul already knows.

Over the next 2 weeks observe your reactions to what happens and see what it is like to understand what you experience from the perspective of the Soul.

Daily Tips for week beginning 15th February 2016

When your buttons are pushed, when you are upset by something, the cause of the upset is within you. We need to keep reminding ourselves of this. Yes, the other person may be acting inappropriately but they are the trigger of your reaction, your upset – not the cause. The cause of your reaction is […]

Daily Tips for week beginning 8th February 2016

  When you journal and are unsure what the lesson you are writing about is teaching you, ask your Higher Self to enlighten you. You will understand more – and more as you keep practising. You are never alone. You have the love of your Soul within you, always there for you, ready to listen […]

Daily Tips for week beginning 1st February 2016

  You need to take time to build your relationship with your Soul, your Higher Self. Many will say but I don’t have any sense of being guided. It takes practice – stickability. You need to take time to attune to your Soul, your Higher Self, every day and not just when you are in […]

Daily Tips for week beginning 25th January 2016

  We have a Higher Self, a Soul, always guiding us, always there for us. The Soul is your compass in life but it cannot guide you if you never turn to it for help and guidance and deny its existence. Every time you don’t know what to do, tune into your Soul and ask […]

Daily Tips for week beginning 18th January 2016

  Our belief that we are a physical body, an ego, a personality, has us living under a constant sense of threat. The threat, the fear, is caused by the belief that we are separate, on our own. This is an illusion. Most of us live very much outside of ourselves trying to fit in, […]